The word 'self' appeared for the first time in the Oxford Dictionary in 1573. In the field of psychology it was first used in 1870 in the Harvard University Press. With few exceptions, self in a Western sense derives its meaning from Descartes, "I think, therefore, I am." Self in Western philosophy is about the mind, about reason - "I am my brain."

In sharp contrast, the concept of self in India has existed for 4000 years. It lies at the core of Indian spirituality, and is one of the routes to human salvation and self-realization. I believe it is also a fundamental principle of leadership, about leading one self first, then others.

The Indian middleclass is a product of the Western education system, and it is, therefore, not surprising that in our daily lives we spend little or no time even thinking about the self. Very, very few individuals devote quality time on a regular basis for their emotional and spiritual growth. They are either unaware, or caught up in the daily grind, or are afraid of disturbing relationships. Consequently, we experience a lot of imbalance in our lives. I admit it is extremely difficult to get the balance right, and each person has to find her answers. But it is possible. I will welcome your views.

How do we restore balance in our life? For average people like us, we need to reconnect with Nature and the Community. When you reach out, you reach in; the reverse seldom happens. We have to find time to invest in ourselves. There is no short cut.

In addition, we should consider introducing the theoretical and experiential study of common essentials of all religions. We will then realize that Truth is one, although there are many highways that take us there.